Strictly platonic
This is not dating, a sexual service, massage, therapy or medical care. Requests outside this framework do not proceed.
Radical Clarity · Safety system
Cuddling consent and boundaries: take nothing for granted
Clear boundaries, ongoing consent, the right to pause and human judgement at every stage. This is the framework that comes before any contact.
The non-negotiable principles
The framework, in six clear principles.
Ongoing, not a one-off
The initial agreement does not bind someone to continue. Consent can change or be withdrawn at any time.
Mutual and specific
Both the person interested and the practitioner retain the full right to set, change or restate their boundaries.
Immediate, without an explanation
A “stop”, a clear sign of discomfort or an inability to actively consent is enough for an immediate pause.
Only the data that is necessary
Include only the necessary practical information in your request. Do not send sensitive details “just in case”.
No automatic acceptance
Requests need to be assessed. Expressing interest is not a booking, confirmation or guarantee of service.
A simple test
If it is not clear, willing, specific and reversible, it is not safe consent.
When we do not proceed
A boundary is not a failure. It is part of how the framework works.
A request does not proceed when it involves sexual intent, pressure, harassment, a demand for secrecy that conflicts with safety, an inability to consent freely or behaviour that gives reasonable cause for concern.
The service is also unsuitable for urgent mental health or medical needs. In immediate danger, contact the appropriate emergency services.
Refusing, changing your mind and stopping do not require negotiation. A safe framework respects “no” immediately.
If something goes wrong
There is a separate reporting route.
Leave the situation
Your immediate safety comes first. You do not have to continue in a situation that makes you uncomfortable.
Make a record
Write down what you remember when you feel safe to do so. A perfect or complete account is not required.
Report
Use the complaints and incidents page to read the reporting information.
See the processConsent through practical examples
The principles become easier to understand when connected with everyday phrases and choices. Reporting an incident is different from making a routine session request.
In practice
Your boundaries, before, during and afterwards.
You can choose quiet company and conversation or an optional platonic hug. Physical contact is optional and is never assumed.
Before you meet
- Say what would make you feel comfortable and what you do not want.
- Ask who will attend, what screening involves and who handles a complaint.
- Agree the framework clearly before any contact.
During the session
- Any change in the form of contact needs a new, clear agreement.
- You can choose conversation only, ask for space or stop.
- Prepayment is not consent to physical contact and does not remove the right to stop.
After the meeting
- You do not need to share more personal details or book another session.
- If something concerned you, you can use the reporting route.
- Keep information in your first message to a minimum and ask how to submit a report securely.
Simple words, clear boundaries
You do not need to find the “right” words.
“I only want conversation today.”
“This is not comfortable for me. Let’s change it.”
“I need a pause and some space.”
“I want us to stop now.”
You do not need to justify saying no or changing your mind. If active consent cannot be given, contact stops.
For questions, or when something went wrong.
Ask for specific information about the individual practitioner’s screening, training and identity before meeting. For a complaint or incident, use the separate reporting page. Email is not an emergency channel.
Code of conduct
The same clear framework for everyone.
These rules apply to both the client and the practitioner. Booking or payment never replaces consent.
Adults, fully clothed
Meetings are exclusively for adults aged 18 and over. Both people remain fully clothed; underwear-only participation is not permitted.
Strictly non-sexual contact
Kissing on the mouth, touching areas covered by underwear and requests for sexual “extras” are not permitted. The meeting is not a date.
Sobriety and hygiene
Meetings require sobriety and personal hygiene. They do not proceed when alcohol has been consumed or someone is under the influence of substances.
Privacy and respect
Confidentiality is a rule of the meeting. Hidden cameras and recording that has not been agreed are not permitted. To report an incident, use the relevant reporting route.
Clear agreement before any touch.
Discuss which position and form of contact feel comfortable, and agree a clear stop word. Consent is checked throughout. A “no”, “stop”, change of mind or sign of discomfort is enough to pause — the agreed word is not the only way to stop.
When the meeting stops.
Nudity, demands for “extras”, alcohol or substance influence, a hidden camera and pressure for a romantic or sexual date are reasons not to begin or to stop the meeting.
Before a meeting is confirmed
Expectations and practical safety.
An initial conversation
Before confirmation, expectations, boundaries and understanding of the platonic framework are discussed.
The practitioner process
Selection includes a review of qualifications, an interview and a supervised session. Ask for clarification about the individual practitioner.
Start and end check-ins
The practitioner checks in with their safety support person at the start and end of the meeting.
Before any request
Read the process. Ask questions. Make your boundaries clear.
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